Nur jetzt habe ich ein E-Book gelesen am "The Logic of Love". Es ist der Titel mit Stefan Molyneaux als Autor. Er sagt da dass Liebe ist noch nur fühlen aber noch ein Verb. Es braucht Tun. Wie? Wie jetzt spreche ich auf Deutsch Sprache obwohl er ist Schwierig für mich aber noch benutzen. Warum? Doch, Liebe. Aber, das sind alles. Ich kann nicht ja Deutsch sprechen nicht mehr. Aber dass bedeutet nicht ich habe mir kein Liebe. Sehr dumm Ahnung.
Well, a lot of people are simply telling "I love you". It sounds so romantic and rejuvenating. But, what they don't understand that love has its sub-contents and sub-philosophies that lie underneath the big L word. Thus, having several mistakes out of their illusions created by mind on how they look love.
Many have known that love is something felt from the inside. Thus, even telling they love the person but they only love him for what she only sees and her for what he only sees and vice versa. But, real love is different. It's not just a feeling, a satisfying feeling of flesh and mind. But, it is an action that requires hard work and sacrifices.
Our parents are just one of the few examples we can recognize of real love. No matter how hard headed we are as kids or as their children, but still they are able to welcome us with warm heart and arms open wide. No matter how we fail them, they are still able to repress the feeling of disappointment and let love overpower them. But this doesn't mean, it's a totally highlighting the abusive-oppressive thing among children-parents relationship but just a brief view on how our parents love us, for real.
Now, let's take the other side. How about our partners? Are we able to accept them and love them for real? For no matter who they are? This is not an easy concept. There are a lot of things we ought to consider as part of the "id-ego" mechanism of humankind. But, forgetting the intellectual side of it, let's go deeper towards its deepest philosophies.
According to the author, love is not just a statement but rather an action to make to prove its worth and its existence. Yeah, it's true. We will know true and super real love if we are able to make things out of our comfort zone specifically to the persons we most love, and most especially if what we are doing is really for them. Only a small percentage remains to yourself then.
Love is not just a painting you chose to buy but when you arrive at home, you'll repaint it with your own desired designs. It is not just a mannequin to dress to what you want your partner looks and appears to the society to make your ego satisfied. No! Love requires acceptance. Whether he or she is fat, thin, or whatever, accept your partner for who he or she is. You can't just love him for what you just want but you love him because of him and how he really appears and acts.
Zum Schluss, love is ein Verb, noch nicht nur Gefühl. :)
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