Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Salutatory Speech Way Back 2005; A Quick Recall To How I Made It In Front in Grade School

My Salutatory Speech
Riverdale Grade School
Delivered March 2005

Honorable guests,
Faculty members and staff of Riverdale Grade School, headed by our beloved principal, Mrs. Maybelle Soriano.
Mr. and Mrs. Sigfried Soriano, the founders of this institution
Our school directress, Mrs. Marjorie Austria
Parents, co-graduates, ladies and gentlemen,
Good afternoon.

Welcome to this memorable occasion on the 3rd graduation rite in this laudable center of learning. Today is one of our momentous events as graduates of this school. This shall be remembered because we successfully passed the first segment of our educational ladder. Yes, gone are the days of homework, exam, and other school activities. But this, my fellow graduates, is just the beginning of reaching our dreams.

It is indeed my pleasure and great privilege to be speaking to you today. At this occasion that marks the successful passage of 28 students inluding me from Riverdale Grade School.

I, therefore, wish to extend my heartfelt congratulations to each and every graduand, equipped with firm determination to succeed in their elementary years. Bonafide graduates, statistically, nearly all of us will be marching not only the perdon seated beside us, but also to remind us that the person is our classmate, a future high school student and a very possibly friend. As a student, it will be difficult and harrowing experience. But it is much more bearable if we go through it with people you're familiar and comfortable with.

Today, it s our turn. So be good to each other and act with honor - because our reputation will be a legacy to this institution. As we leave the portions of our dear alma matter, we have a very fulfilling and enriching years ahead of us. And I wish that all of us will achieve our greatest dream and future glory through the best education that everyone will pursue.

In closing, I offer my heartiest congratulations to all of us, my co-graduates. "Education is not a preparation for life, education is life itself. The future is ours to make the best of. I wish our success and happiness in whatever we do.

Thank you and good afternoon.



Tuesday, January 20, 2015

20 Qualities A Woman Has That Make You Love Her Forever

Once in a lifetime, we may able to meet that woman - a woman whom we consider "The Dream Girl" or perhaps "The One". There may be a lot of funny and unexpected situations may happen to us before we meet them. At times, we often ask ourselves why do all the sh*t happens before we can ever meet that woman we are looking for.

However, if you happen to meet her, it's like you've seen a diamond in the widest sand dunes in the Arabian desert. Probably, you already got that woman - the woman you've been waiting for; that woman whom you'll never imagine to let go.

These types of woman are one of the most crucial and so rare to meet. You're lucky if ever you have the chance to meet her.

1. She's naturally beautiful.

A lot of beautiful girls are out there. You can hang out with them and have some few drinks. You can even meet them in the park or in a grocery store. They are everywhere.

But only a few women who are really beautiful inside out. In the modern times, beauty is measured in make-up, fashion, and other superficial standards.

When we try to define the beauty of the woman you'll probably be with is something that is real. It is something you just can't  see from the outside. It is hidden in her eyes.

2. She's kind and nurturing.

When we label a woman who is really kind and nurturing, is someone with an attitude which can be observed by the way she treats you. As simple as it is!

This kind of woman has that soft and genuine heart that shows perfectly how empathetic she is. She is someone who acts motherly but not really mothering you, just act motherly, but still lady-like.

3. She's smarter than you.

Guys are naturally born competitive. They are naturally born leaders. It's usual to see how guys compete with each other in several ways. But, wait, there's always a woman who can make him shut up and think. Why? She knows much better on things he only knows the least.

However, this does not imply that this character of the woman gives negative impact towards men, instead, it beautifies the relationship and assures the man who has a great woman with him, he knows he can be guided, directed to a right path. Guys sometimes act stupid and reckless towards their decisions.

4. She's high-spirited.

As guys, you don't want to be involved with a boring and monotonous woman in a relationship. Although sometimes, a relationship can be rough and tough, which likely can cause flatness in the end. There are times when there's some creativity in the relationship, it's more likely the one we want to keep.

However, if you're with a woman who can be a variety. She can be boring at times since this is really inevitable, but, she can be also dynamic, lively, cheerful, and adventurous. If you happen to meet this type of woman, keep her.

5. She loves you deeply.

This is one of the most important value and attitude in a relationship. Guys tend to be over-emotional to some small things and act stupid in front of them. Yet, she's still loves you deeply.

As a man, you can really see that in her. That no matter how cocky (but not that much), stupid (not all time) you are, but still she's loving you with all her heart, probably she's the woman you should never let go. Ever!

6. She compromises.

Only a few people can do this. Usually types of women like an office-girl, or really professionals are hard to pin down and make them compromise. They usually prioritize their selves over something related to romance or emotions.

But if your woman can do compromise over some things (especially those big ones), she's the woman you can really be with you for lifetime.

7. She can make you feel home.

When you're really in love, it's one of the most special feeling in the universe. For guys, it's like you are in the world where you are supposed to be. Most of the guys find a home in the woman's eyes, they won't let them go.

8. She can be brutally honest, but in a nice way.

Flattery can make any one's ego fed and satisfied. However, for this kind of woman, she can be so brutally truthful to what she really sees; she won't hesitate to tell you that you're already doing the most stupid thing. They feel better when you're corrected. She loves to be honest.

9. She's strong but still lady-like.

Any man likes to be with a strong woman. Sometimes, they like women who thinks positive amid tough situations. Although these women can feel bad towards the bad situation but still they are able to move forward.

10. She's driven and determined to do what she wants.

Being driven is one of the most attractive attribute any woman should possess. This particular attitude creates much attraction to men. Why?

Basically, guys and girls alike think that without drive in life, everything is boring and seem impossible. But for some guys, they like women who are really determined to reach whatever goals she has or whatever plans they have before, she's really having that attitude of wanting to get them.

11. She encourages you.

Everyone needs encouragement. It's one thing that drives people and makes people to move forward especially for guys. Since men are naturally born competitors, they need someone whose able to feed them with positive energy. Thus, they don't want naggers. Instead, encouragement-givers.

12. She's already secured (emotionally).

Other women tend to have that intention to make their guys to feel jealous just to make them feel secured that their guy really love them. This is actually stupid. But sadly, a lot of childish women do this.

For a woman whose already emotionally-stable, they don't need to do that stupid move just to prove their guy's love for them because they already know it.

13. She isn't an attention-getter.

There are some girls who like a princess - that type of woman who usually demands so much attention from their guy. They seem to act like princesses in the fairy tales. But for this type of woman, they don't need it. They're already secured about their selves.

14. She's independent, but not over-rated.

Guys, just accept that your woman doesn't have all the world revolved around you. She also has her friends, hobbies, etc. So, not all time she's thinking, wondering or daydreaming about you. She's too busy for that.

15. She shows confidence in front of your friends and family.

Guys, be honest. You know that you have had several girlfriends whom you're hesitant or feel embarrassed whenever you bring them with your family or friends, right?

It's usually brings a big slap on our faces whenever our families and friends give their awful comments to our girlfriends.

But, with a real woman, we don't have to worry because they know how to carry their selves with utmost confidence when they're with your closest friends or families.

16. She's not shy towards sex.

Confidently, a real woman - a really real one, is not shy whenever the guy opens about sex. She can confidently articulate how she wants to be f**ked, and so on. Because for her, sex is just natural drive to humans. So, there's no need to be shy talking about it.

17. She can also say "I don't know".

Although you have a real smart woman with you, but there are things that she doesn't know, too. But, she's humble enough to admit it.

This time, when your woman can say that three precious words to you with all confidence, keep her. She's really rare.

18. She can laugh at your jokes and can be extremely funny.

There's a famous adage that says that when your partner can laugh at your stupid jokes and can make you laugh, too, she's a real keeper. That's basically true! Not all couples have that.

There's also a common saying  when someone can make you laugh, that same person makes you fall in love (faster), too!

19. She's loyal.

If she happens to be hot and sexy in the eyes of your guy friends and they usually tell you "Hey, you really got that hot chick beside you!" "You're lucky to have her! She's too hot!", but still she sticks on you. Keep her! Not everyone is blessed to have that kind of woman. Really.

20. She means the world to you.

You can't really imagine life without her. That's basically it.

All of us wanted to be with the person we really love and willing to spend much of our time with them. However, there are really times where everything seems to fail. But, you don't want losing her to be part of the list.

You can just fail or be defeated in battles of life but never that battle of losing her. If you already felt this, probably you have finally met that "Dream girl" or "The One."

She means the whole world to you.

Fed Up With Overtime? Try These!

We know that overtime work is often not within our control, but sometimes it can be. Just try your best to make your overtime workload a minimum. 

Employees are often tasked to do a lot of work which leads to stressful and long hours. Yet, they are doing it for the sake of higher payments. Thanks to the high product demands of most companies, employees have better chances to be paid on an overtime-basis and get higher payments all together.

Employees around the globe think that working beyond 40 hours per week will make them more productive and help them finish more work. In general, working beyond 40 hours per week is simply unproductive.

However, CATO Institute, an American public research organization, revealed that overtime hours are highly more taxable than those regular working hours in a week. According to this research, the higher the number of hours worked by an employee, the higher the tax bracket an employee belongs to. This is another burden for both employees and employers.

On the other hand, having overtime will be a burden to the employee, too. It makes the weekends much stressful and not relaxing. Therefore, any hired individuals should avoid working overtime. Therefore, work in a regular number of hours. Here are some ways to avoid overtime:

1. Be early to work.

There's a famous saying, "An early bird catches the worm." If an employee goes to work as early as he can, thus, he can also finish a lot of stuff early, too. As simple as that. In most cases, employees goes to offices tardy, that's why, they usually make their 8-hour work longer since they have to finish stuff needed to be done in a day.

2. Be organized.

What wise employees do to save time amid tons of work to finish in a day, they usually have a to-do-list. This is really important to organize the job to do without procrastinating everything and at the same time, one can meet deadlines in a very hectice schedule though there are still lots of them are left unfinished.

3. Make a priority list.

Aside from making a to-do-list, make sure to make a list of things needed to be finished earlier than the others assigned. In this way, it will make work more systematic, fast, and punctual to the deadlines of each work.

4. Be wise in spending your breaks.

Having a break time does not mean doing unnecessary chats and dilly-dallies with office mates. This is good to be nice to colleagues but make sure it doesn't consume much of your vacant time. Make your vacant time more productive since this is the perfect time to freshen up and to relax a bit after hours of stressful work.

5. Weigh your meetings to attend.

By having an invitation to the meeting, does not mean that every time, an employee should always say "YES". Weigh the agenda and the importance of the meeting over the assigned work to be finished in a certain deadline. Not unless if the meeting is related to the work assigned. That would be okay and substantial.

6. Learn to say "NO".

This is a wise act by an employee. No need to be a superhero who can do every thing assigned. No one can do that especially if the deadlines are really hectic. By saying yes all the time, it will make your work more chaotic and unorganized. Before saying yes to a certain assignment, make sure to check your to-do-list and your priorities set in that day or in that week (stated in number 2 and 3). If the new task is already unmanageable, just say no to it and let others do the work.

7. No "Facebook-ing" at work.

This is a big no, no. Doing Facebook-ing, Twitter-ing, and so on really make big procrastination to the work and at the same time in the work place through wasting much of the time doing useless things and reading unnecessary posts from friends instead of reviewing the work or doing the assignment to meet the deadline.

8. Make your worktable clean.

If your worktable is clean, it will also clear up your mind midst very hectic work schedules and tons of work to be done.

9. Go home on time.

If your work ends in 5 o'clock in the afternoon, then go home in that hour.. No need to waste time extending more minutes or some hours after the regular working hours. Well, you're trying to avoid overtime, why doing so?

10. Don’t do other stuff besides work.

If the goal is to finish work in a certain time, make sure to have it in mind to achieve that goal. Therefore, don’t do other unrelated stuff to the task. For example, if the assigned responsibility is related to the communications of the company, just focus on responding emails, answering calls, and other tasks related should be accomplished.

Working more hours in a given time make any workers sound more hard working, determined, and interested in the job. But this is a wrong view of achieving 100% success in work. 

In order to achieve the set goals (that each company reminds their employees), make sure to do smart working instead. 

To do this, each employee should be focused on the given job and not doing tasks apart from the assigned. It’s good to be helpful but not all times. They are hired to do the job, therefore, they should be acquainted that they are employed to attain the aim. This, too, applies to you as an employee. By doing these, for sure, you can avoid working overtime.

Friday, January 16, 2015

12 Best Stripteasing Songs Ever

One of the most challenging in relationships is how to keep it alive. Relationships in the first few months can be cool and inspiring since the couples are just knowing each other well. However, as it goes on and on for several months, years, the adrenaline that couples experience in their relationship can grow less. Thus, in order to boost its innermost power, sometimes, one must do some "spice-ups". The most common thing is to do STRIPTEASING.

Stripteasing is one of the most creative activity that couples do to boost their relationship. As per experience, it may be tiring and sounds like a body workout (if the rough stripteasing is done), but the effect is really guaranteed. To achieve the goal of stripteasing, one must be open to this kind of sexual creativity.

Before knowing the songs, here are some quick tips to create an erotic-sensual atmosphere:
1. Have some dim lights.
2. Prepare your stripteasing clothes. Make sure this will not create "epic fails" later on.
3. Stripteasing is really way cooler if it's a surprise. So, it's best if your partner doesn't have any idea when or where you're going to do it.
4. Choose cool music. Make sure you're able to dance it well and you're body movements suit the music you chose. For slow music, make sure you're a bit flexible and fit to do the erotic movements. For beginners, you can do it with a bit of rock music. 
5. Make way for erotic facial expressions. This makes the stripteasing enjoyable and pleasurable.

So, here are the top 10 best stripteasing songs ever:

1. Eyes without a face by Billy Idol



2. After Dark by Tito & Tarantula 



3. You can leave your hat on by Joe Cocker



4. Sex (I'm a) by Lovage 



5. Closer by Nine Inch Tails



6. Cherry Pie by Warrant 



7. American Woman by Lenny Kravitz



8. Ride a White Horse by Goldfrapp


9. Pornstars are Dancing by My Darkest Days


10. Man in the box by Alice in Chains



11. Supermassive black hole by Muse 


12. Tainted Love by Marilyn Mason


One more tip. It's really important in stripteasing where you should show off some CONFIDENCE and that you should let him see that you really are ENJOYING every move you make!

Hope you'll have great time with these songs!

Thursday, January 15, 2015

TUDLO Program (TG Program-Whole program ORIGINAL description)

TUDLO PROGRAM
Based from the ORIGINAL document SY 2011-2012

BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF THE PROGRAM

These programs are set to provide service to the community where Atenean education is all about - being compassionate enough to care about the surroundings. Thus, TUDLO sa DV and Adopt-a-School Projects are proposed to make a movement about this vision.

In this way, too, the School of Education community will benefit from this system where the unified Educators will set forth to its mission - to educate. The student-volunteers will benefit in terms of imparting what they have learned in their schooling; the faculty, staff and the administration on the other hand can benefit through their support to these big projects to its pursuance.

Aside from those given benefactors, the college council and its co-curricular organizations too can benefit through aligning some of their projects to the objectives of the program. Activities to be conducted will be negotiated between the college council and the co-curricular organizations.

THE RATIONALE

Teachers' Guild's objective for this year's mechanism is marked through DIMI (Development, Inclusion, Mobility, and Innovation). Thus, this creates a system where projects proposed must be in line with this idea.

Development 
Projects that will be implemented must aid students upon learning more as the year level progresses. TG will assist them in their needs.

Inclusion
Projects must create unity as manifested in general assembly, gathering. It also invites the students to participate and to involve their selves, not merely exclusive to one specific, selected group only.

Mobility
Projects must be well-disseminated. Initiatives upon relaying information i.e. online, room-to-room, or text brigade are done to ensure the awareness of SOE Community to the activities.

Innovation
Projects must be creative, not necessary adapted from the traditional activities in the college. This is to invite students to student engagement and create enthusiasm and motivation among the SOE community.

These pillars as dictated if wrapped as a whole constitutes the TUDLO Program. This program comprises series of activities where it is focused on the DIMI concept. It stands for Teachers United for Development and Learning Opportunities. The entirety of the whole school year is seen in this program. Among of the projects formulated is the Adopt-a-school Program and TUDLO sa DV. The project itself defines the TUDLO.

Adopt-a-school Program entails for the development and improvement of the level of Education in the community. It also provides opportunities for the unfortunate to go to remedial classes if there are lessons covered that are not yet clear through the knowledgeable student volunteers. At the same time, Education student volunteers will apply and will integrate what they have learned from the classroom especially the theories, laws, principles, and the like.

OBJECTIVES
At the end of these projects,

Students

  • The students could benefit from the community through their utmost service given their prior knowledge, time, commitment, and Magis towards reaching out to the unfortunate kids who hardly get into school.
  • The students could clearly understand the importance of their subjects as manifested to their remedial classes to be given to the pupils alike.
SOURCE OF FUNDS
Teachers' Guild will initiate activities for fund-raising to support this project. Hereunder are the activities that will be implemented for the whole school year:

  1. Trash to Cash Campaign. This is an activity where students are invited to participate through giving empty mineral bottles and newspapers to the designated TG outlets.
  2. Volunteers' Shirt. The volunteers for the project are encouraged to wear their respective shirt for identity purpose. Thus, they are required to wear the shirts before they could proceed the respective area. Proceeds will immediately go to the project. 
  3. Solicitations.
  4. Selling of the bottles. This is scheduled every first Saturday of the month.
  5. TGindahan. Teachers' Guild will be having its store running throughout the year. Varied items will be sold to the public with 50% of the sales as support of these projects. 
BENEFITS OF THE PROJECTS
Student: Scholars and Non-Scholars
  • The students will be able to get advantages to apply what s/he has learned from his/her Education subjects as well as their subjects from their respective areas of specialization especially in terms of: 
  1. Community Awareness
  2. Real-life integration
  3. Assessment, Evaluation, etc. 

Created by:

(signed)
Mecyll T. Jamila
TG President
2011-2012
Xavier University-Ateneo de Cagayan

Sunday, January 11, 2015

How Broken Promises Troubles Relationships


"Promises can be broken." I guess anyone can say that. It's a common saying. Well, nowadays.
I wonder why people can do that to others well in fact, when you give a certain promise even to simple things can make troubles or conflicts if not made possible.

Merriam-Webster Dictionaries helped me define what a promise is. According to them, it is a statement telling that you will DEFINITELY do something or that something will DEFINITELY happen in the future. It also a REASON to EXPECT that something will happen in the future.

Thus, making promises is not just giving off something you intend to make for the other person but also it involves A TOTAL COMMITMENT TO IT.

But, what if the other person fails to make it?
This is where DEFINITELY trouble comes in, especially to couples.

1. Broken promises always top the reason for broken relationships.

Basically, this is because the other person tends to expect a lot if the partner is making any promises which aren't made possible. On the other hand, if the simple promise failed to satisfy the other may lead to distrust to the partner, which later on, can cause break ups.

2. Broken promises creates big negative impact to the partner.

As grievous as it sounds, but this can severely affects the partner especially if they're already married. How? Broken promises is based on trust. But, if the partner tends to make frequent unrealistic promises, it can basically lead to lack of trust which is unhealthy for the relationships.

3. Broken promises adds big negative stress to the couples.

It directly links to the previous point where broken promises can create big negative impacts to the partner. In this note, it also adds negative stress to the couples, too. They're directly proportional to the other.

4. Broken promises disappoints couples.

Of course, when you're making promises to your partner, of course, your partner tends to expect a lot from that promise though it's just some small acts like a vacation, doing the laundry by the next day, etc. Something like these small acts, if undone, can cause conflicts immediately. Small acts like that are also considered your small promises, which you are definitely expected to do.

5. Broken promises leads to break ups and/or divorce.

Try to review the previous points. Definitely, if your act of breaking of promises is such a casual habit, don't be surprised if your partner will eventually withdraw from the relationship.

According to Knoji.com, broken relationships and most especially broken marriage is basically established with just a simple stupid act of breaking small promises. Because of these broken small promises, it usually creates conflicts between couples. If left unsolved, the partner usually withdraws from their relationship. Therefore, it ends with a sad love story. It may sound so stupid and so small to be reactive. But if done frequently, and consecutively, it naturally makes the other partner feel unworthy. Why?

Just come to think of it, if your boyfriend says,"Hey, I will take you to dinner date in your birthday." Of course, you are expecting it. So, you prepared for it. You bought the nicest dress, etc. to make yourself look good. But then, when that day came, your boyfriend suddenly says, "Oh, I've got to make something. Sorry. I can't make it."

Another instance, if your wife says, "Honey, don't buy a pair of shoes now, I'll buy you one when my salary is released." So, you didn't bought a new pair of shoes since your wife promised to buy you one. However, when the salary day came, you're now asking for her promise. "Hey, where's the new pair of shoes you promised, honey?" Oh, your wife forgot. Well, it's okay for forget if she says, "Oh, I forgot. Okay, let's go and buy." But, if your wife says, "Sorry, hon, but I can't buy you a new one 'cause I bought some new clothes."

How would you feel about it? Do you feel good? Try thinking that he will do it several times. How would you feel?

That's basically how broken promises troubles relationships. So, be careful what you promise if you wish to have a long-term romantic bond, relationship, marriage with your partner, your husband/wife.